The Educator Toolkit for Behaviour 2026
A practical, self-paced course featuring new videos with Sandi Phoenix. Learn to support children’s behaviour and wellbeing using the Phoenix Cups Framework and guidance-based approaches.
If you've ever felt stuck between managing behaviour and truly understanding it, this course was made for you.
Through engaging video content, thoughtfully designed on-screen readings, and practical tools you can use straight away, this course invites you - and your whole team - to reframe the way you think about children's behaviour. Grounded in humanistic and positive psychology, it's a transformative approach that works in real classrooms and care settings, every single day. You'll finish with a shared language, a practical framework, and the confidence to lead meaningful conversations about behaviour support with your team.
Our most-loved course since 2016 has had a complete makeover. With over 15,000 new words, fresh resources, and over an hour of face-to-camera video with Sandi Phoenix, this updated version goes deeper into psychology and practical strategies than ever before. We've restructured everything into short, focused video segments - easy to revisit, perfect for sparking team discussions.
Move beyond traditional 'behaviour management' approaches. You'll build a practical framework to better understand and plan for children's social and emotional learning - with thoughtfully designed templates and tools to support real, lasting change.
Discover the foundations of the Phoenix Cups® - a powerful, humanistic framework for understanding human behaviour through the lens of five basic life needs. Essential for both early childhood and school-aged educators building a shared team philosophy.
Excite and inspire your team to try something new - something that works. This course gives your whole team a shared language to communicate ideas and strategies, shifting the focus from managing behaviours to meeting needs.
Throughout this course you'll be actively engaging with ideas, reflecting on your practice, and building skills you can use immediately in your setting.
Identifying behavioural challenges and barriers to learning
Reframing language to support positive behaviour guidance
Exploring strategies to intentionally facilitate social and emotional learning
Starting inclusive, strengths-based conversations with your team
Understanding the five basic human life needs through the Phoenix Cups® Framework
Completing your own Phoenix Cups® Profile to deepen self-awareness
Creating a personalised wellbeing plan for sustainable practice
Developing practical plans to support children's behavioural and social learning
Identifying moments of flow to enhance engagement and regulation
Using tools and templates to guide critical reflection and continuous improvement
Whether you're working independently or leading a team, this course provides everything you need to approach behaviour support with confidence, compassion, and clarity.
Inside, you'll find practical templates, downloadable resources, and fresh video content - including new insights from Sandi Phoenix - all designed to spark reflection, inspire critical thinking, and drive meaningful change across your whole setting.
The Phoenix Cups® Framework gives your team a shared language and philosophy that helps everyone understand human behaviour and guide children's social and emotional development with consistency and care.
We know committing to professional development is a big decision - so we'd love to let the course speak for itself. Sign up for our free trial and get immediate access to a selection of sample lessons, plus a few bonus downloadable resources, so you can see exactly what's inside before you decide.
Join thousands of educators across Australia who are already using the Phoenix Cups® Framework to create calmer, more connected settings for children and educators alike.
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Introduction
FREE PREVIEWFinding your way around
FREE PREVIEWAcknowledgement of Country
FREE PREVIEWA quick check-in
Copyright & your agreement
Preface: How the Phoenix Cups came to be
FREE PREVIEWAbout the author - Sandi Phoenix
FREE PREVIEWActivity booklet
Critical reflection book download
Activity 1 - What is challenging you?
FREE PREVIEWJacob - the advocate for childhood
Activity 2 - How do children learn?
What does being storm ready and inclusion readiness have in common?
Activity 3 - Watch your language
Perspectives
Activity 4 - Starting the inclusion conversation with your team
Behaviour management - What is it?
FREE PREVIEWBehaviourism - where has it come from and how do we use it now?
Fun break 1 - Behaviourism timeline
FREE PREVIEWCase study - Behaviourism; the only tool in Emily’s toolkit
Activity 5 - Emily’s toolkit
Activity 6 - Separate the child from the behaviour
Beliefs about children’s behaviour
Activity 7 - The influence of the behaviourist movement
An alternative to 'Behaviour Management'
A timeline of psychology that focuses on human potential and strenghts
Activity 8 - Maslow and Glasser’s theories about basic human life needs
Activity 9 - Understanding your understanding of human behaviour
The need for a framework
Introduction to The Phoenix Cups with Sandi Phoenix
FREE PREVIEWCup filling behavioural choices
Your Cups Profile (Big Cups and Small Cups)
Activity 10 - Draw your profile
Fulfilment (Full and Empty Cups), Will, and Skill
Nature Vs Nurture
Activity 11 - Your Wellbeing Plan
Activity 12 - The Phoenix Cups pop quiz
Children are efficient Cup fillers
FREE PREVIEWNoticing Children's Cups - Hope's Story
Recognising and responding to empty Cups - Seth's Story
Meet Jayden
Meet Sally
Jayden's Story
Sally's Story
"It's not Fair"
Activity 13 - Develop Cup filling plans for children
FREE PREVIEWActivity 14 - A solution-focused conversation framework for discussing children’s behaviour
Activity 15 - Reflecting on your team meeting
Activity 16 - Cup filling strategies in practice
Activity 17 - Case study - Josie's behaviour
Connection seeking
Case study - Josie's Connection Plan
Activity 18 - Connection Plan
A magic ratio
Activity 19 - Your interaction ratio
Say what you see, ask a question
Activity 20 - Say what you see, ask a question
So what are they seeking?
FREE PREVIEW
Whether you work in long day care, family day care, kindergarten, or preschool - this course was built with you in mind. No prior knowledge of the Phoenix Cups® Framework required.
The Phoenix Cups® Framework translates beautifully into school settings. If you're supporting children's behaviour and social development, this is for you.
Looking for a whole-team PD resource that builds a shared language and consistent approach? This course is designed to be used individually or as a collaborative team professional learning journey.

Sandi Phoenix is the founder of Phoenix Support for Educators and the creator of the Phoenix Cups® Framework - a humanistic, needs-based approach to understanding human behaviour that has been transforming early childhood and school-aged care settings across Australia since 2016.
With a background spanning education, psychology, and leadership coaching, Sandi is passionate about supporting educators to see behaviour through a compassionate lens - and to build working environments where everyone can thrive. Her warm, engaging teaching style and deep expertise make complex psychological concepts genuinely accessible and immediately practical.
In this updated course, Sandi brings brand-new face-to-camera insights, fresh perspectives on wellbeing and behaviour, and the same unwavering commitment to advocating for the delight of childhood that has made this course Australia's most trusted professional development resource for children's behaviour.
This course provides a fresh perspective of understanding children's needs to understand and guide behaviour rather than bunch of strategies to redirect beha...
Read MoreThis course provides a fresh perspective of understanding children's needs to understand and guide behaviour rather than bunch of strategies to redirect behaviour. All based on theory, evidence and science with links to our frameworks makes it easy to relate to and apply in practice. Love the Phoenix Cups framework analogy and relatable stories. Several things to reflect on with educators and teams. Thank you :)
Read LessI loved this training and have learned so much I am going to reflect on myself and see how I can change to help children full fill their cup and mine and wil...
Read MoreI loved this training and have learned so much I am going to reflect on myself and see how I can change to help children full fill their cup and mine and will most definitely take this training ideas to my team. Will mention this training to anyone in the near future.
Read LessI didn't think this online course would be helpful when I started. "Just another round of theory which I can't apply practically. Not when you have the kids ...
Read MoreI didn't think this online course would be helpful when I started. "Just another round of theory which I can't apply practically. Not when you have the kids I work with!" But, this course has actually been helpful for my day-to-day practice with the kids I work with, yes even with the kids that feel the most challenging. It's been a change of perspective now, understanding that the kids are just trying to meet their needs. You build that relationship with them, and you can help them meet their needs in a more appropriate (respectful to others) way.
Read LessI really enjoyed this toolkit and a special mention to jet pack man’s story. I can relate this to quite a few children and the story made me emotional. I lov...
Read MoreI really enjoyed this toolkit and a special mention to jet pack man’s story. I can relate this to quite a few children and the story made me emotional. I love this theory!
Read LessNot only do I feel validated, I FINALLY have a framework from which to bring my pedagogy together. Thank you.
Not only do I feel validated, I FINALLY have a framework from which to bring my pedagogy together. Thank you.
Read LessFacilitating solutions Provides common language to communicate ideas and strategies Provides templates for team to collect useful data as professional con...
Read MoreFacilitating solutions Provides common language to communicate ideas and strategies Provides templates for team to collect useful data as professional conversations Facilitates reflections, critical thinking and changes to support children’s behaviour and social learning Lead educators and team new ways of thinking about children’s behaviour.
Read LessThe video 'Jayden and Sally story' was very helpful and interesting! The phoenix cups has already started to help me within myself and my practice at work.
The video 'Jayden and Sally story' was very helpful and interesting! The phoenix cups has already started to help me within myself and my practice at work.
Read LessThis course gave me useful strategies to understand and manage children's behaviour in a positive way. The examples and tools were easy to follow and apply i...
Read MoreThis course gave me useful strategies to understand and manage children's behaviour in a positive way. The examples and tools were easy to follow and apply in real-life situations. A great resource for educators!
Read LessThank you for some amazing tips. This has really made me question the way I approach dealing with the children I educate and has allowed me to look at the b...
Read MoreThank you for some amazing tips. This has really made me question the way I approach dealing with the children I educate and has allowed me to look at the behaviours they exhibit in a completely different light.
Read LessHelped me to understand to meet most important life needs for children.
Helped me to understand to meet most important life needs for children.
Read LessAs always, the course is amazingly informative and exceptionally presented!
As always, the course is amazingly informative and exceptionally presented!
Read LessChapter 7 a brilliant flow of the Phoenix Cups Framework essence
Chapter 7 a brilliant flow of the Phoenix Cups Framework essence
Read LessAs an educator, I now feel more confident in supporting emotional regulation, fostering stronger relationships, and creating a more balanced and empathetic a...
Read MoreAs an educator, I now feel more confident in supporting emotional regulation, fostering stronger relationships, and creating a more balanced and empathetic atmosphere. The course is thoughtfully structured, engaging, and backed by research. I highly recommend it to anyone looking to improve personal or professional relationships through a lens of compassion and self-awareness.
Read LessThe Educator Toolkit for Behaviour offers a clear, well-structured approach to understanding and supporting children’s behaviour. I appreciated how it integr...
Read MoreThe Educator Toolkit for Behaviour offers a clear, well-structured approach to understanding and supporting children’s behaviour. I appreciated how it integrates evidence-based frameworks like Positive Behaviour Support and the Phoenix Cups, making complex theories accessible and applicable in everyday early childhood settings. The practical strategies, especially around building authentic connections and tailoring responses to individual children’s needs, are very helpful. This toolkit has definitely deepened my understanding of the “why” behind behaviours and provided me with tools to respond thoughtfully rather than reactively. It’s a valuable resource for both new and experienced educators aiming to create supportive, inclusive learning environments.
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Five basic and human need's
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